Each man has own view, characteristic, style, sound, and some more. You have your own view too. It must be different from others, though sometimes, seems like similar. If you do not want to be follower, you are thinker, you build innovative thing, you are revolutionary, you want to be the best for yourself, and you are who you are, you are a man.
It is not easy makes you different from others, you have own class. However, you should try before you feel worry. Go up straight! Kill your close friend: lazy! You can do best thing in your life, Guys.
Say Bismillah when you want to start and change your life!